Great question @David!
I always wanted to play drums back in 5th grade (a few decades ago 😜), but mom was not supportive & wouldn’t sign off on it (never got a straight answer why). Did saxophone for 2-years but never got hooked. In college, got an acoustic & electric guitar which I dove into but my expectations where too high vs. my abilities/time investment (never loved my playing so they gathered dust).
Fast forward to last summer, have the house, family, & daughter is doing lessons at local music school. Something inside finally kicked in, so I loved into lessons for the fall. Wife was extremely supportive, probably also tired that always lamented never having a chance when young but not proactive pursuing. Been practicing for 10 months now & it is AWESOME. Something inside just feels the flow & joy of playing!
I have a Roland e-kit in our somewhat finished basement and also do an adult band weekly lessons where we work on songs. We did a family/friend gig this past May that the music school put on with 8 other groups We’re working on more material for another gig at end of summer.
I also watched Stephen’s YouTube that lead to participating in the Kickstarter.
Goals are to keep progressing with basic to intermediate level music, be patient with my progression, and have the correct technique to not overstrain my muscles, as I want to do this for decades to come. Eventually would like to get Smells like Teen Spirit down (on my 5-year goal) & even farther out tackle the double-kick pedal.