Even though this is a very real and painful problem for so many drummers, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.
The internet, social media, and other resources we have focus so much on the technical side of things...how fast you can play, how complicated are the patterns...that this discussion of GROOVE oftentimes gets left in the dust. Everyday you get on Instagram or Facebook or You Tube and see drummers doing insane licks and tricks on the drums. It leaves you feeling like you will never become the drummer you want to be.
I've got a little secret to tell you...99% of what we do as drummers is GROOVE. We keep the time. We make the music FEEL good.
Who cares if you can play at 174 mph if it doesn't FEEL good?! Musicians, bands, the music...they all care about how you can make the music FEEL.
Once you begin to make the music FEEL good, you in turn will begin to FEEL amazing about your drumming. And groove is not as hard to get as you think it is. That's why I made the Basics of Groove 3 course pack...